Friends are supposed to be our pillar in life. A second clone of who we are, they are supposed to hold our hands and guide us through the best times, the worst of times and everything in between the chaos of life. Some of us are fortunate enough to find that one ride or die friend that has proven to be a complete compliment and more of who we are.
Meanwhile, HUNTY!

Some of us have friends that are a complete no go but, we just really need to hear it from someone else that they are Cray Cray.  Here you go 7 warnings you have got a toxic friend #RUN.

Today, we will shed some light on ways to spot our one and only fake friend/secret haters/the devil is a liar/ no weapon fashioned against me shall prosper.


  1. You feel like a personal assistant.
  • This is very important when it comes to the list of things that are considered acceptable and unacceptable in every relationship.
  • If you are forced to be the time keeper and always by their rules, sweetie this is a red flag.
  • They make you pull through huge sacrifice and time dedication, just to get nothing in return.
  • You are required to respect all their invitations; meanwhile, your invites are put in second place with a tag of “only attend if I am bored”.
  • You are required to comfort and walk them through struggles but your life situations are quickly disregarded on the other end.
  • You constantly feel stressed and uncomfortable because you are struggling to meet their friendship requirements.

Studies have shown that feeling like a personal assistant is a good notification that your relationship is toxic and not respected by the other party.


  1. You are always taking the blame.
  • They never see anything wrong with them. “it’s you not me”
  • They never apologize for their wrong doings no matter the circumstances.
  • They are very uncompassionate and careless about your feelings and emotions.
  • They feel no resilience to hurting you but make you feel worthless when you hurt them.
  • They never accept the fact that you are capable of making mistakes.
  • They expect you to respond and care for their life issues but are quick to disregard yours.
  • They transfer blames and responsibilities to you in the presence of others.
  • They are comfortable making you feel bad to save their personality.


This is a No No

I smell toxic #RUN.

  1. Beware of the wolf in sheep’s clothing
  • This is one of the most important aspects of the 7 warnings you have got a toxic friend. Do not fall for this one because the outcome can be relatively tragic.
  • This kind of friends makes you feel like you have nothing to worry about.
  • They make you look you understand they can be trusted.
  • They pull close and make you look up to them as a pillar of support but NO!

They run behind your back to tell other about your deepest and most hidden secrets.

These people can be damaging and extremely toxic.

There is nothing as disappointing as waking up one morning and all heads are turned because your hidden words have been spread all over town by yours truly.

  •  They claim to be your friend but hang out with your haters and people who despise you. They claim to have your back but let you down in the ocean alone.
  • They are always sorry after destroying you but will do it again with the slightest opportunity.
  • They claim to have your back but let you down in the ocean alone.
  • They are always sorry after destroying you but will do it again with the slightest opportunity.
  • They are always sorry after destroying you but will do it again with the slightest opportunity.


  1. They are never happy for you.
  • It doesn’t matter what the situation seems to be, they are just not happy for you. They hate to see you happy, except when you are happy for them.
  • Considering the fact that they are your friends and could be close enough to know your dreams and goals in life, they seem to show no acknowledgment for your accomplishments.
  • Sometimes depending on how big your accomplishments maybe, they result to jealousy and immediate change in attitude towards you.
  • In fact, they go as far as making up drama or bringing up past misunderstandings to put you in a bad mood.
  • They discourage any attempt made on celebrating your accomplishments.
  • They seem to be at peace and amused when you fail and seem unsuccessful in your endeavors.


  1. Make it a purpose to prove superiority
  • Everybody has to know at all times that you are beneath him/her.
  • They make it a purpose to put your courage and spirit down, even when they see you are trying to step your game up.
  • They hang out with you in public, when they know it is beneficial to them.
  • They don’t want you to over shine them in any aspect what so ever.
  • They would discourage you from looking good if it affects their image of superiority.
  • They tell others negative things just to put you down.
  • You feel like the relationship is more of a sheep and its master instead of 50 percent dedication from both individuals.


  1. You dread seeing them and feel very relieved when they leave.
  • You are never yourself when they are around you.
  • You always feel the need to act the character of the personality they expect you to be.
  • You are constantly under pressure because you are trying not to do anything wrong.
  • You are terrified of having deep conversations with them because they will judge you and if possible use it against you.
  • If you find yourself purposefully ignoring your friends call or trying to come up with reasons you can’t hang out, save yourself the trouble and exit the toxic environment before it’s too late.


  1. They bring out the worst in you.

“Let’s just do it what’s the worst that can happen”

  • They drag you through all kinds of regrettable activities, that do nothing but get you in trouble or pull you many steps away from your dreams.
  • They don’t value spending time doing productive work.
  • They are always ready to have fun and very uninterested in moving up the ladder in life.
  • They only like you, when you are interested in having fun and getting wasted.
  • They are unhappy when you appear focused and productive towards your goals.


Once warned, twice respected. Don’t be sorry. Take action now and move forward before you get stuck. If you needed another opinion to convince you on moving away from this insanity, then

Here you go.